I try to explain the idea that I got following the computational study of a variable mass system.
Let us consider an isolated system in a certain state of motion. It will have a certain mass and geometry, i.e. a moment of inertia, which quantify its ability to oppose changes in its dynamic state.
Imagine that its mass varies over time for some reason.
The system is isolated and subjected only to conservative forces; for some reason (for example a pendulum made up of a holey sack full of sand) the mass, and therefore the inertia, changes. Then, "the way in which the system reacts to forces" changes, opposing less or more resistance depending on whether the mass decreases or increases, and to remedy this fact, the energy of the system must increase or decrease: in the first case there is an "excess" of work that can be used only by increasing the speed (kinetic energy) and / or amplitude (potential energy); in the other case, on the other hand, work is necessary (which, being the system isolated, must necessarily be provided at the expense of the mechanical energy of the pendulum) in order to maintain the state of motion against the increase in inertia.
Formally, in the cardinal equations of motion, as you can verify, a damping term is proportional, with a minus sign, to the derivative of the mass (in the case of a material point).
If the mass increases (decreases) then the derivative is positive (negative) and the object describes a damping (forcing), like a viscous friction with a variable coefficient.
For example, in a variable mass pendulum, computational work will lead you to the following result:
if the mass decreases then the oscillations increase in amplitude (ergo the energy of the system increases), if instead the inertia increases then the oscillations decrease in amplitude (energy is consumed).
The new term in the equation mathematically denounces the fact that the system is changing its inertial mass and, depending on the case, this requires or provides work: to maintain a motion, even constant in speed, it is necessary to provide external work if the system increases in mass; if instead the system loses mass, this translates into usable energy: in the case of
pendulum pierced the force of gravity decreases the mass and the consequent excess of energy is used by the system to increase the amplitude of the oscillations (if one is in an oscillatory regime, otherwise a chaotic motion is expected).