Here's the link: http://www.feynmanlectures.caltech.edu/I_13.html
\begin{equation} \label{Eq:I:13:16} \frac{d}{dt}\sum_i\biggl(\sum_j-\frac{Gm_im_j\mathbf r_{ij}}{r_{ij}^3}\biggr)\cdot \mathbf v_i= \sum_{\text{pairs}}\biggl[ \frac{Gm_im_j\mathbf{r}_{ij}}{r_{ij}^3}\cdot \mathbf{v}_i+ \frac{Gm_jm_i\mathbf{r}_{ji}}{r_{ji}^3}\cdot\mathbf{v}_j\biggr] \tag{13.16} \end{equation}
Look at equation 13.16 and the explanation below it, which I am copying here:
In Eq. (13.16), on the other hand, $\sum_{\text{pairs}}$ means that given values of $i$ and $j$ occur only once. Thus the particle pair 1 and 3 contributes only one term to the sum. To keep track of this, we might agree to let $i$ range over all values 1, 2, 3, …, and for each $i$, let $j$ range only over values greater than $i$. Thus if $i=3$, $j$ could only have values 4, 5, 6, … But we notice that for each $i,j$ value there are two contributions to the sum, one involving $\mathbf{v}_i$, and the other $\mathbf{v}_j$, and that these terms have the same appearance as those of Eq. (13.15), where all values of $i$ and $j$ (except $i=j$) are included in the sum. Therefore, by matching the terms one by one, we see that Eqs. (13.16) and (13.15) are precisely the same, but of opposite sign, so that the time derivative of the kinetic plus potential energy is indeed zero.
Now what I don't get is how do the terms of equation 13.16 and equation 13.15 cancel out exactly? There is a $\mathbf{v}_j$ term in 13.16 and there is no $\mathbf{v}_j$ term in 13.15. So how can they be cancelled out to become zero?