Fourier transformations:
$$\phi(\vec{k}) = \left( \frac{1}{\sqrt{2 \pi}} \right)^3 \int_{r\text{ space}} \psi(\vec{r}) e^{-i \mathbf{k} \cdot \mathbf{r}} d^3r$$
for momentum space and
$$\psi(\vec{r}) = \left( \frac{1}{\sqrt{2 \pi}} \right)^3 \int_{k\text{ space}} \phi(\vec{k}) e^{i \mathbf{k} \cdot \mathbf{r}} d^3k$$
for position space.
How do we know that $\psi$ is not the Fourier transform of $\phi$ but we suppose that its the other way around ($\psi$ would be proportional to $\exp[-ikr]$ and $\phi$ would be proportional to $\exp[ikr]$)? If there was no difference in the signs, wouldn't there be a problem in the integration from minus inf. to plus inf. if the probability is asymmetric around zero?
What is the physical reason that in the integral for momentum space we have $\exp[-ikr]$? I agree about the exponent for position space which can be explained as follows: its the sum of all definite momentum states of the system, but what about the Fourier of the momentum space? How can we explain the integral (not mathematically)?