To see the idea of a matter-wave more quantitatively and to relate it to the electrocmagnetic fields, it can be helpful to consider a beam propagating in one dimension. For example, a laser (or other coherent light source) propagating down some path. In this scenario, you can treat the transverse laplacian and the z-derivatives (z being the direction of propagation) independently.
The wave equation for EM waves is:
$$\hspace{0.25in}\nabla^2 E = \frac{1}{c^2}\frac{\partial^2 E}{\partial^2 t} $$
this differential equation has plane wave solutions, so without loss of generality you can can examine a field of the form:
$$E(\vec{r}) = A(\vec{r}) e^{i\omega t+ik_0t}$$
$$\nabla^2 \vec{E} = \partial_{xx} \vec{E} + \partial_{yy}\vec{E} + \partial_{zz}\vec{E}$$
$$\nabla^2 \vec{E}= e^{i\omega t + ik_0 z} \partial_{xx} A(\vec{r}) + e^{i\omega t + ik_0 z} \partial_{yy} A(\vec{r}) + \partial_{zz}A(\vec{r})e^{i\omega t + ik_0z}$$
$$
e^{i\omega t +ik_0z} \nabla^2 A(\vec{r}) + 2ik_0 e^{i\omega t +ik_0z}\partial_z A(\vec{r} ) - k_0^2 e^{i\omega t +ik_0z} A(\vec{r})
$$
The wave equation can then be written as:
$$
e^{i\omega t +ik_0z}\nabla^2 A(\vec{r}) + 2ik_0 e^{i\omega t +ik_0z} \partial_z A(\vec{r} ) - k_0^2 e^{i\omega t +ik_0z} A(\vec{r}) + \frac{\omega^2 n^2}{c^2}A(\vec{r}) e^{i\omega t +ik_0z} = 0
$$
By dropping the common exponent, this can be simplified to:
$$
\nabla^2 A(\vec{r}) + 2ik_0 \partial_z A(\vec{r} ) - k_0^2 A(\vec{r}) + \frac{\omega^2 n^2}{c^2}A(\vec{r}) = 0
$$
And define the transverse laplacian to be
$$ \nabla^2_\perp = \nabla^2 - \frac{\partial^2}{\partial z^2}$$
And by making the slowly varying envelope approximation:
$$ \frac{\partial^2}{\partial z^2}A(\vec{r}) \ll k_0 \frac{\partial}{\partial z}A(\vec{r}) \ll k_0^2A(\vec{r}) $$
Also use the dispersion relation:
$$
k_0 = \frac{n\omega}{c}
$$
The wave equation can then be written as:
$$ i\frac{\partial A(\vec{r})}{\partial z} = \frac{1}{2k_0}\nabla_\perp^2 A(\vec{r})$$ which is in the same form as the Schroedinger equation in the absence of an external potential with the exception that instead of varying with time $t$, it varies with position along the axial direction, $z$.
