Note: I added some more descriptions, so that anyone who reads can benefit possibly more. I suspect this question become somewhat popular, because there may be many people confused with SR, but how deep is it I am not sure.
Motivation Here SR means Special Relativity, LT means Lorentz transformations.
SR is easy to describe, after you learn about how to back and forth between observers using Lorentz transformations, imo. I know of the physical motivations that leads to LT, but even if you accept them as axioms, I think it suffices for most problems. Note that although you can describe SR as GR with $g=\eta$, in the sense that LT are those linear maps that preserve the "norm" induced by $\eta(v,v)$, I never really needed to think of $\eta$ because I can look at formulas for LT and this is usually enough to solve a problem in SR. I think in the early days when SR existed but GR wasn't, people didn't really treat $\eta$ fundamental, but LT was the main contribution of SR.
I am taking a GR course, and there we are less concerned about what observers see (I mean there are less problems on that) and we are most concerned about solving for $g_{\mu\nu}$ and trajectories of particles etc.
Because of that, I wanted to discover the equations that relate $(t,x,y,z)$ and $(t',x',y',z')$ different observers measure in GR, but I run into the problem of what do I mean by "coordinates of some specific event", as in how does two different observers know they look at the same "event" in GR. In other words, spacetime is some abstract manifold, and an event is some $p\in M$ and $p$ doesn't have to look like a $4-$tuple, nor if it does should the first component be the time, or latter components space. I am asking if someone measures $p$, and how does another person know (if they are moving) they are looking at the same $p$ (which is independent of the reference frame). Below is the simple case of this question, for the SR case.
Question itself:
Let's restrict ourselves to SR. I know that if there are two observers and one of them moves with a constant velocity, say along the $x$ axis, I can relate the coordinates the latter measures to the one measured by the former using LT.
My question is, if this transformation is denoted by $x'=Lx$, and $x$ is interpreted as some event observed by one of the observers, what is $x'$?
What I mean is, I usually think that $x$' is the coordinates that the moving (relative to the other) observer measures for the event x, but how does that observer know they were trying to measure $x'$?
For example, imagine there is a ball $l$ meters away in the x direction. Then I think that the moving observer can measure what is the location of that ball in their reference frame, but how do they know they are supposed to look at that ball?
Like, if space was filled with balls of same color, after boosting, how would the moving observer know they are computing the coordinates of that "same" ball?
For another example, imagine 2 people are in empty space, and one of the moves along $x$ axis with velocity $v$. If $A$ looks at some point, and calls it $(t,x,y,z)$ how does $B$ know which of the four tuples $(t',x',y',z')$ should they tell to person $A$, so that they realize they are related by LT? I mean, it is all black, and you can't really distinguish things.
Otherwise, $x'$ is not a quantity that exists on its own but defined through the Lorentz transformation, which makes it tautological.
Note: For answers like leaf falling from a tree and two people comparing what did they measure for that event, I didn't accept it because in a universe where nothing happens but a leaf fell, two people I think could say these are the same "events", but what if from that same place periodically leafes fall. How do you know which leaf are you looking to compare with other person. I ask this to limit any anthropomorphism involved.
EDIT: My goal was to define "same event" so that I can relate what different observers see in GR (SR is given by LT which is well known). I wasn't fully interested in putting a cartesian system and synchronized clocks per say, since this procedure I think doesn't generalize to GR. Anyway, this question does indeed ask what I wanted to ask.