I) OP is right, ideologically speaking. Ideologically, OP's first eq.
$$ \tag{1} \left| \int_{\mathbb{R}}\! \mathrm{d}x_f~K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i) \right| ~\stackrel{?}{=}~1 \qquad(\leftarrow\text{Turns out to be ultimately wrong!}) $$
is the statement that a particle that is initially localized at a spacetime event $(x_i,t_i)$ must with probability 100% be within $x$-space $\mathbb{R}$ at a final time $t_f$, as our QM model does not allow creation or annihilation of particles.
However, such notion of absolute probabilities of the Feynman kernel $K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i)$ cannot be maintained when ideology has to be converted into mathematical formulas. E.g. for the harmonic oscillator, one has
$$\tag{A} \left| \int_{\mathbb{R}}\!\mathrm{d}x_f ~ K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i)\right|
~=~\frac{1}{\sqrt{\cos\omega \Delta t}}, \qquad \Delta t ~:=~t_f-t_i,$$
which only becomes unity for $\omega \Delta t \to 0$. The problem can ultimately be traced to the fact that there is no normalizable uniform probability distribution on the real axis $\mathbb{R}$, i.e. the $x$-position space. In general, OP's first eq. (1) only holds for short times $\Delta t\ll \tau$, where $\tau$ is some characteristic time scale of the system.
II) Let us review how normalization appears in the Feynman path integral from first principles. The main tool to determine the Feynman propagator/kernel/amplitude $K(x_b,t_b;x_a,t_a)$ is the (semi)group property
$$\tag{B} K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i) ~=~ \int_{\mathbb{R}}\!\mathrm{d}x_m ~ K(x_f,t_f;x_m,t_m) K(x_m,t_m;x_i,t_i). $$
III) Equivalently, if we identify
$$\tag{C} K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i)~=~\langle x_f,t_f \mid x_i,t_i \rangle$$
with an overlap of instantaneous$^1$ position eigenstates in the Heisenberg picture, then eq. (B) follows from the (first of) the completeness relations
$$\tag{D} \int \!\mathrm{d}x ~|x,t \rangle \langle x,t |~=~{\bf 1},
\qquad \text{and} \qquad
\int \!\mathrm{d}p~ |p,t \rangle \langle p,t |~=~{\bf 1}.$$
These instantaneous position and momentum eigenstates have overlap$^2$
$$\tag{E} \langle p,t \mid x,t \rangle~=~\frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi\hbar}}\exp\left[\frac{px}{i\hbar}\right].$$
IV) OP's first eq. (1) is equivalent to the statement that
$$\tag{F} \left| \langle p_f=0,t_f \mid x_i,t_i \rangle \right| ~\stackrel{?}{=}~\frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi\hbar}},\qquad(\leftarrow\text{ Ultimately wrong!}) $$
due to the identification (C) and
$$\tag{G} \langle p_f,t_f \mid x_i,t_i \rangle
~\stackrel{(D)+(E)}{=}~\int_{\mathbb{R}}\!\frac{\mathrm{d}x_f}{\sqrt{2\pi\hbar}}\exp\left[\frac{p_fx_f}{i\hbar}\right] \langle x_f,t_f \mid x_i,t_i \rangle. $$
Eq. (F) is violated for e.g. the harmonic oscillator, where one has
$$\tag{H} \left| \langle p_f,t_f \mid x_i,t_i \rangle \right| ~=~\frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi\hbar\cos\omega \Delta t}}. $$
V) For sufficiently short times $\Delta t\ll \tau$, one derives from the Hamiltonian formulation (without introducing arbitrary normalization/fudge factors!) that
$$\begin{align} \langle x_f,t_f \mid x_i,t_i\rangle
~\stackrel{(D)}{=}~&\int_{\mathbb{R}} \!\mathrm{d}p~
\langle x_f,t_f \mid p,\bar{t} \rangle
\langle p,\bar{t} \mid x_i,t_i\rangle \cr
~=~&\int_{\mathbb{R}} \!\mathrm{d}p~\langle x_f,\bar{t} \mid
\exp\left[-\frac{i\Delta t}{2\hbar}\hat{H}\right]\mid p,\bar{t} \rangle
\langle p,\bar{t} \mid \exp\left[-\frac{i\Delta t}{2\hbar}\hat{H}\right]\mid x_i,\bar{t}\rangle\cr
~\approx~&\int_{\mathbb{R}} \!\mathrm{d}p~
\langle x_f,\bar{t} \mid p,\bar{t} \rangle
\langle p,\bar{t} \mid x_i,\bar{t}\rangle
\exp\left[-\frac{i\Delta t}{\hbar} H(\bar{x},p) \right]\cr
~\stackrel{(E)}{=}~& \int_{\mathbb{R}} \!\frac{\mathrm{d}p}{2\pi\hbar}
\exp\left[\frac{i}{\hbar}\left(p\Delta x -\left(\frac{p^2}{2m} + V(\bar{x})\right)\Delta t\right) \right]\cr
~=~& \sqrt{\frac{A}{\pi}}
\exp\left[-A(\Delta x)^2-\frac{i}{\hbar}V(\bar{x})\Delta t\right],
\qquad A~:=~\frac{m}{2 i\hbar} \frac{1}{\Delta t},\cr ~=~&\sqrt{\frac{m}{2\pi i\hbar} \frac{1}{\Delta t}}
\exp\left[ \frac{i}{\hbar}\left(\frac{m}{2}\frac{(\Delta x)^2}{\Delta t}-V(\bar{x})\Delta t\right)\right],\end{align}\tag{I}$$
where
$$\tag{J} \Delta t~ :=~t_f-t_i, \quad \bar{t}~ :=~ \frac{t_f+t_i}{2}, \quad \Delta x~ :=~x_f-x_i, \quad \bar{x}~ :=~ \frac{x_f+x_i}{2} .$$
The oscillatory Gaussian integral (I) over momentum $p$ was performed by introducing the pertinent $\Delta t\to\Delta t-i\epsilon$ prescription. Eq. (I) implies that
$$\tag{K} K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i) ~\longrightarrow~\delta(\Delta x) \quad \text{for} \quad \Delta t \to 0^{+}, $$
which in turn implies OP's first eq. (1) in the short time limit $\Delta t \to 0^{+}$. More generally, Eq. (I) implies OP's first eq. (1) for $\Delta t\ll \tau$.
VI) Note that the short time probability
$$\tag{L} P(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i)~=~|K(x_f,t_f;x_i,t_i)|^2~\stackrel{(I)}{\approx}~\frac{m}{2\pi \hbar} \frac{1}{\Delta t} , \qquad \Delta t\ll \tau, $$
is independent of initial and final positions, $x_i$ and $x_f$, respectively. For fixed initial position $x_i$, the formula (L) can be interpreted as a uniform and unnormalizable probability distribution in the final position $x_f\in\mathbb{R}$. This reflects the fact that the instantaneous eigenstate $|x_i,t_i \rangle$ is not normalizable in the first place, and ultimately dooms the notion of absolute probabilities.
VII) For finite times $\Delta t$ not small, the interaction term $V$ becomes important. In the general case, the functional determinant typically needs to be regularized by introducing a cut-off and counterterms. But regularization is not the (only) source of violation of OP's first eq. (1), or equivalently, eq. (F). Rather it is a generic feature that the $px$ matrix elements of an unitary evolution operator
$$\tag{M} \frac{\langle p,t \mid
\exp\left[-\frac{i\Delta t}{\hbar}\hat{H}\right]
\mid x,t\rangle}{\langle p,t \mid x,t\rangle} $$
is not just a phase factor away from the short time approximation $\Delta t\ll \tau$.
VIII) Example: Consider the Hermitian Hamiltonian
$$\tag{N} \hat{H}~:= \frac{\omega}{2}(\hat{p}\hat{x}+\hat{x}\hat{p})
~=~ \omega(\hat{p}\hat{x}+\frac{i\hbar}{2}). $$
Then
$$ \begin{align}\frac{\langle p,t \mid
\exp\left[-\frac{i\Delta t}{\hbar}\hat{H}\right]
\mid x,t\rangle}{\langle p,t \mid x,t\rangle}
~=~&1 - \omega\Delta t\left(\frac{1}{2}-i\frac{px}{\hbar} \right)\cr
&+\frac{(\omega\Delta t)^2}{2}\left(\frac{1}{4}-2i\frac{px}{\hbar} - \left(\frac{px}{\hbar} \right)^2\right)
+{\cal O}\left((\omega\Delta t)^3\right),\end{align}\tag{O} $$
which is not a phase factor if $\omega\Delta t\neq 0$. To see this more clearly, take for simplicity $px=0$.
References:
R.P. Feynman and A.R. Hibbs, Quantum Mechanics and Path Integrals, 1965.
J.J. Sakurai, Modern Quantum Mechanics, 1994, Section 2.5.
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$^1$ Instantaneous eigenstates are often introduced in textbooks of quantum mechanics to derive the path-integral formalism from the operator formalism in the simplest cases, see e.g. Ref. 2. Note that the instantaneous eigenstates $\mid x,t \rangle $ and $\mid p,t \rangle $ are time-independent states (as they should be in the Heisenberg picture).
$^2$ Here we assume that possible additional phase factors in the $px$ overlap (E) have been removed via appropriate redefinitions, cf. this Phys.SE answer.
