Denote the matrĩ $\eta=$ diag$(-1,1,1,1)$. The group $O(1,3)$, called Lorentz group, is the group of all matrix $L\in M_4(\mathbb R)$ such that \begin{align} L^\top\eta\,L\,=\,\eta.\tag1 \end{align} The subgroup of all Lorentz matrix in $O(1,3)$ of determinant 1 is denoted as $SO(1,3)$. My aim is to find the explicit description of each matrix $L\in SO(1,3)$.
Since $O(1,3)$ and $SO(1,3)$ is a Lie group, they admits a Lie algebra. Indeed, at the present I have not so much understand of the formal definition of the Lie algebra of a Lie group. However, in this concrete context, I know that the Lie algebra of $SO(1,3)$ is given by \begin{align} \mathfrak{so}(1,3)\,=\,\Big\{X\in M_4(\mathbb R)\,\big|\,e^{tX}\in SO(1,3)\ \, \forall t\in\mathbb R\Big\}.\tag2 \end{align} By the definition of exponential matrix, for any $X\in \mathfrak{so}(1,3)$, $\exists A\in M_4(\mathbb R)$ such that \begin{align} e^{tX}\,=\,I_4+A.\tag3 \end{align} Since $e^{tX}\in SO(1,3)$, we have \begin{align} \eta\,&=\,(I_4+A)^\top\eta\, (I_4+A) \\ &=\,\eta+\eta A+A^\top\eta+A^\top\eta\,A\tag4 \end{align} Omitting the term $A^\top\eta\,A$, we obtain \begin{align} (\eta A)^\top\,=\,-\eta A.\tag5 \end{align} We can deduce that, then, $A$ is given by \begin{align} A\,=\,\begin{bmatrix} 0&a&b&c \\ a&0&d&e \\ b&-d&0&f \\ c&-e&-f&0 \end{bmatrix},\ a,b,c,d,e,f\in\mathbb R.\tag6 \end{align} This implies \begin{align} A\,&=\,\theta_1L_1+\theta_2L_2+\theta_3L_3+\lambda_1K_1+\lambda_2K_2+\lambda_3K_3 \\ &=\,\theta\cdot L+\lambda\cdot K\tag7 \end{align} where $\theta=\big(\theta_1,\theta_2,\theta_3\big),\,\lambda=\big(\lambda_1,\lambda_2,\lambda_3\big)\in\mathbb R^3$ and \begin{align} L_1=\begin{pmatrix} 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&-1 \\ 0&0&1&0 \end{pmatrix}\ \ \ L_2=\begin{pmatrix} 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&1 \\ 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&-1&0&0 \end{pmatrix}\ \ \ L_3=\begin{pmatrix} 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&-1&0 \\ 0&1&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \end{pmatrix}\tag8 \end{align} and \begin{align} K_1=\begin{pmatrix} 0&1&0&0 \\ 1&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \end{pmatrix}\ \ \ K_2=\begin{pmatrix} 0&0&1&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \\ 1&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \end{pmatrix}\ \ \ K_3=\begin{pmatrix} 0&0&0&1 \\ 0&0&0&0 \\ 0&0&0&0 \\ 1&0&0&0 \end{pmatrix}.\tag8 \end{align} These matrices satisfy (5).
By direct calculating, we can show that \begin{align} \big[L_i,L_j\big]\,&=\,\varepsilon_{ijk}L_k \\ \big[J_i,K_j\big]\,&=\,\varepsilon_{ijk}K_k \\ \big[K_i,K_j\big]\,&=\,-\varepsilon_{ijk}L_k\tag{10} \end{align} where the coefficients $\varepsilon_{ijk}$ are the Levi-Cevita symbol and the commutator $\big[L_i,K_j\big]=L_iK_j-K_jL_i$.
Substituting (7) into (3), we get \begin{align} e^{tX}\,=\,I_4+\sum_1^3\theta_i L_i+\sum_1^3\lambda_i K_i\,=\,\begin{bmatrix} 1&\lambda_1&\lambda_2&\lambda_3 \\ \lambda_1&1&-\theta_3&\theta_2 \\ \lambda_2&\theta_3&1&-\theta_1 \\ \lambda_3&-\theta_2&\theta_1&1 \end{bmatrix}.\tag{11} \end{align} Finally, any Lorentz matrix of $SO(1,3)$ is given by \begin{align} L\,=\,e^{\theta\cdot L+\lambda\cdot K}\tag{12} \end{align} for arbitrary $\theta,\lambda\in\mathbb R^3 $.
In this solution, there're some move that I still yet to understand.
1/ Why could we neglect the term $A^\top\eta\,A$ in (5) ?
2/ Why do we need to consider the commutator in (10), what is its role in the proof ?
3/ How can one get the result at (12) from the preceding moves ?
4/ How is the formula (12) related to the formula of generel Lorentz transformation \begin{align} \begin{bmatrix} t'\\ y_1\\ y_2\\ y_3 \end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} \gamma & -\gamma v_1 & -\gamma v_2 & -\gamma v_3 \\ -\gamma v_1 & 1+(\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_1^2}{v^2} & (\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_1v_2}{v^2} & (\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_1v_3}{v^2} \\ -\gamma v_2 & (\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_1v_2}{v^2} & 1+(\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_2^2}{v^2} & (\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_2v_3}{v^2} \\ -\gamma v_3 & (\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_1v_3}{v^2} & (\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_2v_3}{v^2} & 1+(\gamma-1)\displaystyle\frac{v_3^2}{v^2} \end{bmatrix} \begin{bmatrix} t\\ x_1\\ x_2\\ x_3 \end{bmatrix} \end{align} where \begin{align*} \gamma=\frac{1}{\sqrt{1-v^2}},\ \ \ v^2=\sqrt{v_1^2+v_2^2+v_3^2} \end{align*} ?
I hope someone would help me to clarify those impedents. Thanks.