I am reading the Wu-Ki Tung book "Group theory in physics" and I'm trying to put the various pieces (chapter) together to understand how he gets the unitary irreducible representations of groups used in physics.
At page 157-158 he shows how to get the unitary irreducible representations of group $E_2$ (i.e. Euclidean space in two dimensions) and he states "For unitary representations the generators $J,P_1,P_2$ are mapped into Hermitian operators".
He doesn't provide any details about that mapping or how to build it and then in the rest assume that $P_1,P_2$ are Hermitian.
The usual representation of the $P_1$ generator is evidently not Hermitian: $$P_1=\left( \begin{matrix} 0 & 0 & i \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ \end{matrix}\right) $$ If the generators were Hermitian then the representation of the group would be automatically unitary cause $(e^{iaP_1})^{\dagger}=e^{-iaP_1}=(e^{iaP_1})^{-1}$
At pages 191-198 he shows how to get the unitary irreducible representations of the Poincare' group and at page 194 he states: "The representation is unitary because the generator are realized as Hermitian operators". Again, I can't see how he gets such Hermitian generators.
Isn't this reasoning circular? My guess is that he assumes the unitary representation exists and he shows only how to get the matrix element of the generators.