Previous discussions on this forum regarding the derivation of the law of conservation of angular momentum from Newton's Laws have pointed out that it supposes the strong form of Newton's Third Law. My question concerns why that law is reasonable for contact forces in rigid bodies and in fluids. To illustrate the form of the law I'm talking about, I reproduce the derivation of the law of conservation of angular momentum for a system of point particles: $$\vec{F_i} + \sum_j \vec{G_{ji}} = m_i \vec{a_i}$$ where $\vec{F_i}$ is the net external force on the $i$th particle, and $\vec{G_{ji}}$ is the force on the $i$th particle from the $j$th particle.
To go from change in linear momentum to angular momentum, we take a cross product with the position of this point particle: $$\vec{r_i} \times\vec{F_i} +\sum_j (\vec{r_i}\times\vec{G_{ji}}) = m_i \vec{r_i} \times \vec{a_i} = \frac{d}{dt}\vec{L_i}$$ In other words, the angular momentum of the $i$th particle changes in response to the external torque on that particle and to the torque owing to other particles. We would however like to show that the net angular momentum of an isolated system does not change, i.e, that the interaction of these particles cannot create a net torque internal to the system. In what follows we replace $\vec{r_i} \times \vec{F_i}$ with $\vec{\tau_i}$ for brevity.
Summing up over all particles $i$, we get: $$\frac{d}{dt}\vec{L} = \sum_i\frac{d}{dt}\vec{L_i} = \sum_i\vec{\tau_i} + \sum_i\sum_j(\vec{r_i}\times\vec{G_{ji}})$$ Recalling that action and reaction are equal and opposite, we can pair them up in the last term to obtain the equation: $$\frac{d}{dt}\vec{L} = \sum_i\vec{\tau_i} + \frac{1}{2}\sum_i\sum_j(\vec{r_i}\times\vec{G_{ji}} + \vec{r_j}\times\vec{G_{ij}}) = \sum_i\vec{\tau_i} + \frac{1}{2}\sum_i\sum_j[(\vec{r_i} - \vec{r_j})\times\vec{G_{ji}}]$$
This last term goes to zero assuming the strong form of Newton's third law, which makes an additional claim: that action and reaction are directed along the vector between the point particles. The answers I have seen then go on to talk about how this happens with magnetic forces and that it is resolved by considering the angular momentum carried by the electromagnetic fields. But what about contact forces in rigid bodies?
Consider a door being swung open about its hinge. I push the door, exerting a tangential force, at its extreme end away from the hinge. The door moves as a rigid body, with all points acquiring some tangential momentum. Thus, the internal interactions in the extended body between two adjacent points (in the plane of the door) were able to communicate a force in the direction normal to that plane. This is exactly the kind of force$-$satisfying the weak but not the strong form of the third law$-$that could potentially upset our conclusion that an isolated system ($\sum_i\vec{\tau_i}=0$) conserves its angular momentum.
In general, the approach I have seen in continuum mechanics is somewhat different. For example, in fluid mechanics, one decomposes the velocity gradient into a shear component, and a component owing to rigid body rotation. The argument then is that viscosity will only act when there is relative motion between different parts of the fluid. Thus, the viscous forces spring into action to dampen the shear and bring the fluid into a state resembling rigid body rotation or uniform translation. Once this is achieved, angular momentum is indeed conserved (because the offending force stops acting). The other contact force$-$hydrostatic pressure$-$appears to follow the strong form of the law as well and thus cannot create internal net torque.
I have little experience with solids, but I imagine a similar constraint is evoked? That is, do we resolve the existence of nonradial internal forces by saying they only come into the picture to ensure rigid body rotation? How do we then show that the action of these internal forces does not create a net torque? Further, in the solid case the internal forces are assumed to act instantaneously to produce rigid-body rotation, but the viscous fluid takes time to adjust; is the net angular momentum of the fluid conserved during this time? Finally, there seems to be some reason why everyone is focusing on magnetic forces$-$do nonradial contact forces result from microscopic magnetic interactions, if these are the only fundamental interactions to violate the strong form?
Thanks in advance!