I'm struggling to understand how to use Maxwell's stress tensor to compute electromagnetic forces acting on surfaces. I'll take problem 8.7 from Griffths Introduction to Electrodynamics as an example.
An infinite parallel-plate capacitor, with the lower plate (at $z = −d/2$) carrying surface charge density $−σ$, and the upper plate (at $z = +d/2$) carrying charge density $+σ$, is considered. The Maxwell's stress tensor is defined as (neglecting magnetic fields) \begin{equation} \overleftrightarrow{T} = \epsilon_0[\mathbf{E}\mathbf{E}-\frac{1}{2}|\mathbf{E}|^2I]\,, \end{equation} where $\mathbf{E}$ is the electric field and $I$ is the identity tensor. In my opinion, being $\mathbf{E} = -E\mathbf{e}_z$, the expression for $\overleftrightarrow{T}$ in this case would be $$ \overleftrightarrow{T} = \epsilon_0\left[ \begin{matrix} -E^2/2 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & -E^2/2 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & E^2/2 \\ \end{matrix} \right] \,. $$ Now, in order to calculate, for instance, the force acting on the upper plate, being the Lorentz force per unit volume $\mathbf{f}$ \begin{equation} \mathbf{f} = \nabla \cdot \overleftrightarrow{T}\,, \end{equation} I would integrate this equation over volume $V$ enclosed by the parallel plates and then apply the divergence theorem in order to compute the total Lorentz force $\mathbf{F}$ as \begin{equation} \mathbf{F} = \int_{S_{u}} \overleftrightarrow{T} \cdot \mathbf{n}_u \, \text{dS} + \int_{S_{l}} \overleftrightarrow{T} \cdot \mathbf{n}_l \, \text{dS}\,. \end{equation} Here, the normal unit vectors must be outwardly-pointing, so $\mathbf{n}_u = [0,0,1]$ for the upper plate with surface $S_u$ and $\mathbf{n}_l = [0,0,-1]$ for the lower plate with surface $S_l$. My question is how do I extract from this previous expression the forces acting on surfaces $S_u$ and $S_l$. Are the two terms on the right hand side already the forces acting respectively on the upper and lower plate? If this was the case I would be surprised since, for example, the force acting on $S_u$ would push the upper plate in the positive $z$, while from a physical point of view I would expect it to be in the negative $z$ direction.