When you apply a shear force onto a solid piece of material (say a block on a surface or a cantilever beam with a load) that creates shear stress in the elastic regime, there is a restoring force that opposes the applied force and tries to restore the object's shape.
Since the shear strain deforms the block "sideways" in the above image, the associated restoring force by the lower half of the block onto the upper half of the block is to the left and the restoring force by the upper half of the block onto the lower half of the block is to the left. So if the block is sheared "horizontally" I'd expect the forces to be horizontal as well.
These restoring forces, as I depicted them, certainly seem non-central. My question is, do these restoring forces arise from central forces between the molecules of the object? Or are the forces between the molecules themselves non-central? Which of the two sketches below is more accurate? A, B, or is there something else happening such that neither sketch is helpful?
If B is accurate (and the molecular forces really are central), then I have a contention of incredulity to bring up: Wouldn't this mean the vertical components of the force have to be ludicrously large just for the horizontal components (the restoring shear forces) to be the values that they are? For example, if the restoring shear force is $3\,\textrm{N}$ horizontally, and the block is deformed by a small angle $\theta = 10^{-6}$ (this is the angle the side of the block makes with the vertical direction), would we have to have a force of $3\,\textrm{N} / \sin\theta \approx 3\cdot 10^{6}\,\textrm{N}$. In other words, even the most mundane shear force on an object would create unimaginably large forces. Is this correct?! If not, what is wrong with this reasoning?