There are two identical particles, $a$ and $b$. The particle distance is large enough that interaction term, in the Hamiltonian, is negligible. The Hamiltonian of the system can be written as: $$\hat H=\hat H_a(x_a)+\hat H_b(x_b)$$ The eigestates are of the form $\psi(x_a,x_b)=\psi_a(x_a) \psi_b(x_b)$ where $\hat H_a\psi_a = E_a \psi_a$ and analogously, $\hat H_b\psi_b = E_b \psi_b$.
But there is a problem, if i switch the particle nothing change, because they are identical. So i have to write a symmetric, or an antisymmetric wave function. However, the classical simmetrization, or antisimmetrization does not work: $\frac 1 2 (\psi_(x_a) \psi_b(x_b) \pm \psi_a(x_b) \psi_b(x_a))$ is not an eigenstate of $\hat H$ because of the second term, indeed: $\hat H \psi_a(x_b) \psi_b(x_a) \neq E \psi_a(x_b) \psi_b(x_a)$.
So my question is, how can i create a symmetric, or antisymmetric state in this case? I thought that maybe, since particles are far apart, i should not worry with the symmetrization requirement. But on the the other hand, even if particles are very far, a switch between them does not change anything in the system.