I am very confused when building the Lie algebra of the Lorentz Group. In every books, they expand $\Lambda^{\mu}_{\nu} = \delta^{\mu}_{\nu} + \omega^{\mu}_{\nu}$ at the origin and you end up with the condition that $\omega_{\mu\nu} = - \omega_{\nu\mu}$.
I've done exercises where I have done basically the same thing (at least i feel like they're the same). As instance for the group $SU(2)$ we've done it and we showed that the condition was that the generators must be hermitian and that if you had a basis of the 2x2 hermitian matrices (pauli matrices) then it means you had a basis of the your lie algebra.
But in the case of the Lorentz group we saw that for instance the boost $K^i$ are not antisymmetric and I can't see how the condition on $\omega$ we derived does not impose that. As for the case with the group $SU(2)$ I feel like having a basis of the antisymmetric 4x4 matrices would provide a basis of our Algebra. In the case of the Lorentz group we ask that it is the different generators that are indexed by $\rho$ and $\sigma$ as $\mathcal{(J^{\rho\sigma})^\mu_\nu}$ to be antisymmetric according to those indices and not according to the indices of the matrice $J^{\rho\sigma}$ ($\mu$ and $\nu$).
I obviously have a big confusion with Lie algebra and generators but I really can't put a finger on it.