I have read this question:
so looking toward the singularity, you see the horizon retreating from you as you fall in - even after you've already crossed the horizon.
And this one:
A falling observer does not experience passing through an event horizon as you describe.
As far as I understand, the event horizon is not a physical object, but a boundary between regions of space. Now the first answer says that you can see the horizon retreat in front of you, but the second one says (and some other answers on this site) that you can't even notice the horizon, not even when you cross it (if the BH is large and tidal forces are not relevant). Now the latter seems logical, since it is just a boundary, and it is not noticeable. Then how can an infalling observer see something to retreat in front of it, if you can't even notice it? And how can you cross it if you see it retreat in front if you?
- How can the infalling observer see the event horizon to retreat in front after the observer crossed it (and can't even notice it)?