Newton's law of gravitation states:
Every particle attracts every other particle in the universe with a force that is directly proportional to the product of their masses and inversely proportional to the square of the distance between the centers.
and it can be mathematically expressed as $$F=G\ \frac{m_1\ m_2}{r^2}$$
Newton's 3rd law of motion states:
When two bodies interact, they apply forces to one another that are equal in magnitude and opposite in direction.
Consider a scenario where there's an object of mass 1 kg near Earth's surface.
Let's assume that Newton's 3rd law of motion isn't acting for now.
As per the law of gravitation, the Earth pulls the object with a force of approx. 9.8 N and the object also pulls Earth with a force of 9.8 N. It isn't that only Earth pulls the object, both the object and Earth are pulling each other with a force of same magnitude that is calculated from the above-stated formula.
So, the object and Earth each are experiencing a force of 9.8 N from each other.
Now, let's think that Newton's 3rd law of motion starts acting.
As the object was pulling Earth with a force, Earth now in turn pulls the object with the same magnitude of force. Thus, the object now experiences 9.8 N (gravitational force) + 9.8 N (reaction force from the object pulling Earth) = 19.6 N (net force experienced) and similarly, Earth also experiences 19.6 N of net force from the object.
So, when the 3rd law of motion is in action, the object and Earth each should experience 19.6 N of force from each other.
In reality, this is not what we observe.
We see that an object of 1 kg accelerates at only 9.8 m/s^2 near Earth's surface and not 19.6 m/s^2 as it should if the 3rd law of motion was acting. That means that the object experiences only 9.8 N of force from Earth and this matches the situation before the 3rd law of motion was acting in our scenario.
Does that mean that Newton's 3rd law of motion doesn't apply to gravitational force?
Am I thinking something wrong?