Imagine two ice-skaters, $A$ and $B$. $A$ pushes off $B$ with a force $F_{a}$, say $160\:\mathrm{N}$. If the mass of $A$ is $40\:\mathrm{kg}$ and the mass of $B$ is $60\:\mathrm{kg}$, what is the acceleration of person $A$?
I think I understand how to solve this problem by using Newton's third law: both people will feel a force of $100\:\mathrm{N}$ in opposite directions. So, if I understand, the acceleration on $A$ is :
\begin{align} a &= \frac{F_{a}}{m_A}\\ &= \frac{160}{40}\\ &= 4 \end{align}
Correct me if I am wrong with this because I am still not certain.
However, here is where I get another question. In my physics class, my teacher explained you could solve force problems by either finding the free-body of the entire system (or, the total net force on the system) and then setting it equal to the total mass of the system.
In this case, to me at least, it seems that the only net force in the system (because there is no friction) would be $F_{a}$ (because the third-law forces are internal). So, I would do something like :
$$F_{a} = m_{A}m_{B} a$$
which would solve out to
$$160\:\mathrm{N} = 100\:\mathrm{kg} \cdot a$$
$$\frac{160\:\mathrm{N}}{100\:\mathrm{kg}} = a$$
$$1.6 = a$$
Clearly, a different acceleration than I got from before. I know I am reasoning something wrong. Either the acceleration of the system is different than the person or you cannot do the system or I am doing the system wrong.
Also, in my head, this problem is equivalent to having two blocks, on a frictionless surface, and with the same masses, where block $A$ pushes on block $B$ with $160\:\mathrm{N}$. So a picture would be the two blocks together ($A$ on left $B$ on right) and an applied force pointing (from left to right) into block $A$ .Is this equivalent? From my reasoning, the blocks move together, which means that the acceleration of any block is the acceleration of the system and vice versa.