As far as I know, the electromagnetic field strength tensor is defined to be the simplest object involving the electric and magnetic fields that transforms properly under Lorentz transformations. However, I don't get why such an object should be an antisymmetric rank $(2, 0)$ tensor, in a mathematically intuitive sense. (I guess you could say from a "geometric" perspective, but I'm not necessarily trying to visualize it, either.)
If we take the definition of the electric susceptibility tensor, for example, the fact that it is a $(1, 1)$ tensor is apparent from its definition. We assume that the polarization is linearly related to the electric field (as in $P^m = \epsilon_0\chi^m _n E^n$), and the most general transformation of this sort is a $(1, 1)$ tensor. Hence, the susceptibility tensor is naturally a rank $(1, 1)$ tensor. The symmetry of the tensor is also obvious, because we can always find principal axes along which the susceptibility is a scalar, and hence where the tensor is diagonal.
Such intuitiveness is not at all apparent for the electromagnetic tensor. There are a couple reasons I say this:
Defining a tensor as a set of transforming components always leaves me completely unsatisfied. It's kind of like defining a vector as a tuple of components and a linear transformation as a matrix, which is equally ridiculous: many of the theorems of linear algebra are opaque and confusing when thinking about vectors as tuples, but are obviously true when thinking about vectors as linear objects (a simple example is the rank-nullity theorem). That's how the covariant formulation of electrodynamics feels to me, confusing and opaque, precisely because everything is in terms of components. It's for this reason that the argument "it's a rank $(2, 0)$ tensor because it works" fundamentally doesn't work for me.
To summarize, I am not looking for explanations in terms of how the components transform.
If we define a rank $(k, 0)$ tensor as a multilinear map \begin{align} T: V^* \times \cdots \times V^* \rightarrow \mathbb{R}, \end{align} the problems above all go away. There's just one problem: I have no idea how the electromagnetic field strength tensor is a multilinear map. The only two equations that I know of that directly involve the electromagnetic field tensor are $\partial_\mu F^{\mu \nu} = \mu_0 J^\nu$ and $K^\mu = qF^{\mu \nu} u_\mu$. The first one involves the tensor divergence, which doesn't seem to involve taking a covector as an input (although I'm really not experienced enough at tensor calculus to know). The second does take a covector, but it's the dual to the velocity. In that case, why isn't the field strength tensor a $(1, 1)$ tensor, to just take in... you know, the regular velocity? That might make a little bit more sense, but everything I've seen defines it either as a rank $(2, 0)$ tensor or as a rank $(0, 2)$ tensor. Why do they define it that way, what is there to gain in such a definition?
There's also the question of antisymmetry in the tensor. What does that mean? Why should it be true? I'm attempting to study differential forms using Spivak's Calculus on Manifolds and any other resources I can find online, and antisymmetry for multilinear maps seems to be related to orientation. Why should the electromagnetic field strength tensor have anything to do with orientation (if it even does)?
So yeah, there's my main set of questions for the electromagnetic field strength tensor. I'm not looking for proofs of the tensor nature of the electromagnetic field; the proofs are actually the easiest part in this case. Essentially, all three of these issues boil down to the question of why an antisymmetric rank 2 tensor is the natural choice, not why it's the right one. If I were writing a covariant formulation of electrodynamics, why would it not only be right but obvious to choose such an object?