There is a way of seeing this more explicitly with the Reissner-Nordstrom (RN) metric
$$
ds^2~=~-F(r)dt^2~+~F(r)^{-1}dr^1~+~r^2d\Omega^2
$$
where the $F(r)~=~1~-~r_0/r~+~(Q/r)^2$, $r_0~=~2GM$ and $Q$ the charge in length units. The metric has two critical points
$$
r_\pm~=~\frac{r_0}{2}~\pm~\frac{r_0}{2}\sqrt{\frac{4Q^2}{r_0^2}}
$$
These are the outer and inner horizons for $r_+$ and $r_-$ respectively. The region between them is a spacelike trapping region, similar to the interior of a Schwarzschild solution. The extremal condition on the black hole is where $r_+~=~r_-$ which is where the spacelike region between the outer and inner horizons has been “removed,” or in a more subtle way mapped into the spacetime $AdS_2\times S^2$.
From the metric components we then compute the Christoffel symbols in the usual straight forwards, though tedious, manner. The most salient of the connection terms is
$$
{\Gamma^r}_{tt}~=~F(r)\frac{r_0r~-~2Q^2}{2r^3}
$$
which gives the geodesic equation
$$
\frac{d^2r}{ds^2}~+~{\Gamma^r}_{tt}U^tU^t~=~0.
$$
Far from the black hole We have that $U^t~\simeq~1$ and so $ds~\simeq~dt$ and this is a Newton second law type of equation
$$
\frac{d^2r}{dt^2}~+~F(r)\frac{r_0r~-~2Q^2}{2r^3}~=~0,
$$
where for $Q~=~0$ recovers Newton's second law for gravitation.
Now consider the extremal case. The connection term is then
$$
{\Gamma^r}_{tt}~=~\frac{1}{2}\Big(1~-~\frac{r_0}{r}~+~\frac{r_0^2}{4r^2}\Big)\Big(\frac{r_0}{r^2}~-~\frac{r_0}{2r^3}\Big)
$$
which tells us that a neutral particle is still attracted into the black hole. Then we consider a charged particle
The field strength 2-form and tensor components is
$$
F~=~\frac{Q}{r^2}dt\wedge dr
$$
The geodesic equation is no longer zero, but there is a driving force $F~=~F(r)r_0/2r^2$. With this Newtonian approximation the total force on the particle can be seen to be zero near the horizon. So for the extremal black hole a charge near the horizon will experience no net force.
Other connection terms are also nonzero. An important one is ${\Gamma^\theta}_{r\theta}~=~-1/r$ . For the extremal case the radial acceleration of a charge near the horizon approaches zero, but the angular component remains. Hence if there is a small $U^\theta$ this will move the charged particle off the radial path and ultimately away from the black hole. This in effect prevents the overcharging of a black hole.