Physics of simple collisions I'm building a physics simulator for a graphics course, and so far I have it implementing gravitational and Coulomb forces. I want to add collisions next, but I'm not exactly sure how to go about doing it. 
A quick summary of how this is working so far is: All objects are spheres of a set radius, mass and charge. The mass's and charges of the spheres are treated as point charge/mass for the calculation. Every step in time (about 1/50th of a second) the forces acting on each object are calculated in a nice big nested for loop that figures out the coloumb and gravitational force between 2 objects, for every set of 2 objects, and then they are summed together. I use this net force to determine the acceleration, and the rest is fairly obvious from there. 
What I want to add in is collisions. I can deteremine pretty easily if a collision is happening (if the distance between them <= radius of one + radius of other), what I am not so certain of is how I should add in the collision force (and would need to do it component wise). I want elastic collisions, though for now I'd just be happy with getting conservation of momentum
The information I have easily available are: the velocity of each object (and I mean velocity, speed and direction), the position of each object, the mass/charge (charge obviously not needed here) and the Net force calculated so far for each object for the next step in time. I dont need exact formulas (would prefer if they arent exact), just need a nudge in the right direction.
 A: Mark Eichenlaub's answer is 100% correct, but you can also do it without changing reference frames, and I think it's probably easier that way. Here's how I would set it up.
Suppose that you've determined that two objects are going to collide within the next time step. Determine the positions of the two objects at the moment of collision. Draw a line connecting their two centers. Determine a unit vector $\hat n$ pointing from the center of object 1 to the center of object 2. During the collision, the force will be in this direction, so only this component of the momentum will change. Let the unknown change in momentum be $\vec q$. This vector points in the $\hat n$ direction: $\vec q=q\hat n$. To be specific, if $\hat n$ points from object 1 to object 2, then $\vec q$ is the momentum gained by object 2, and $-\vec q$ is the momentum gained by object 1. 
Now let $\vec p_1,\vec p_2$ be the initial momenta of the two objects, so that the final momenta are $\vec p_1-\vec q,\vec p_2+\vec q$. Energy is related to momentum via the rule $E=p^2/2m$, so conservation of energy says
$$
{p_1^2\over 2m_1}+{p_2^2\over 2m_2}={(\vec p_1-\vec q)^2\over 2m_1}+{(\vec p_2+\vec q)^2\over 2m_2}
$$
In this expression, you know everything except the magnitude $q$ of $\vec q$. So you can solve this equation for the unknown $q$. Then you can compute the new momenta, and you're done.
The equation you solve ends up being a quadratic, but with no constant term -- that is, it's of the form 
$$
aq^2+bq=0.
$$
One solution is $q=0$, of course, but you don't want that one: it corresponds to the two objects passing right through each other. The nonzero one's the one you want.
A: In an elastic collision between spheres, we can use conservation of energy and momentum, but this alone is not enough.  
Start by looking in a frame where one ball is stationary (the target) and the other one is coming in from the side (the striker).  The problem is to find the final momenta of the two balls.  Assuming everything stays in a plane, there are 4 degrees of freedom - two for each momentum.
Conservation of momentum has two constraints and conservation of energy has one, so applying these still leaves one degree of freedom; one extra parameter is needed to describe the collision.  One choice is the precise point of the collision.  Because the force is being applied at this point and is only a contact force normal to the surface, the target ball will shoot off in the direction of the normal to the surface at the collision point.
One way to summarize the rules is:


*
*Boost to a reference frame where the target is initially stationary.  

* Make the final momentum of the target point in the direction of the vector between the balls' centers at the moment of impact.

*Apply conservation of kinetic energy.

*Apply conservation of momentum in both dimensions.

*Boost back to desired original frame.

This should uniquely specify where the target and striking balls go after the collision, and the answer is independent of which ball you choose to be the target.  
If you're doing the calculation in 3D, you will have to choose the correct plane.  It's the plane spanned by the displacement vector between the balls and their relative velocity.  (If these vectors are dependent, the motion is only on a line.)
