The cosmological constant $\Lambda$ is roughly the inverse square of the size $R$ of the observable universe, or horizon radius (with proper constants to get the right units). $\Lambda$ has a solid basis in observations. Observations also suggest that $\Lambda$ is the same for distant galaxies. Various research proposals even explain the value of $\Lambda$ with the radius of the observable universe. (If my reading of the literature is correct, no explanation of the value of $\Lambda$ unrelated to $R$ has ever been proposed, but I might be wrong.)
But if $\Lambda$ is related to the size of the observable universe $R$, its value should have been higher in the past, when the observable universe was smaller. This would imply that $\Lambda$ is not a constant, and that its value should be higher for distant galaxies. This last conclusion contradicts observations.
How can one reconcile these two contrasting arguments?
Edit: Note that I might not have distinguished $\Lambda$ and $\Omega_\Lambda$ clearly in this question. My question is about energy density: Measurements show that the energy density due to $\Lambda$ is constant over time. But then, why is $\Lambda \approx 1/R^2$ ($R$ being the present radius)? This coincidence that two numbers have the same value, one constant, the other time dependent, is really astonishing.
(Even Milgrom's https://arxiv.org/abs/2001.09729 does not attempt an answer.)
Edit: Many recent papers speculate that dark energy density (assuming this is Lambda) is related to the temperature and entropy of the horizon (like the Hawing radiation for a black hole). If one adds numbers, this come out about right. However, this would also mean that the temperature and dark energy density must have been higher in the past. And again, this last conclusion is not backed up by data.
Edit: As Koshi writes, the question is one of the great unsolved problems of physics. So there is no reason to expect a simple answer.