I'm not sure I see the difficulty in the black hole information paradox. The outgoing Hawking radiation is not causally connected with the information in the particles inside. If the hole has evaporated you can't tell what was inside by looking at the Hawking photons. Strominger said that black holes are the cause of the breakdown of the physical laws in our universe. He and two others made a huge calculation to solve the paradox and rescue the physical laws. They assumed soft hair for a BH. Like this, no information is lost. Firewalls are not needed anymore (these were proposed to deal with the problem of entanglement monogamy). About 5000 math terms were needed to arrive at the a priori known value of 12J, the angular momentum of the hole. Rather incredibly they arrived exactly at 12.
But anyhow, why is it so hard to assume that information is lost? If you can't trace matter back to matter that is not there anymore, so what? If the (outgoing) Hawking photons can't be causally connected with the stuff inside the hole, so what? Particles inside disappear and particles appear on the outside. As simple as that. Is unitarity lost? Isn't that also in the case of a wave function collapse? Or when a particle pair is created? The created particles have no causal relation with what came before.
So why inventing strange kinds of entanglements of the Hawking photons with the interior of the hole? Why is the disappearance of particles constituting the BH and an independently appearing of Hawking radiation problematic?