The second question is easiest to answer: yes! An attenuated laser still takes the form $$|\alpha\rangle=e^{-|\alpha|^2/2}\sum_{n=0}^\infty \frac{\alpha^n}{\sqrt{n!}}|n\rangle,$$ just with sufficiently small $|\alpha|$ such that the average number of photons $\bar{n}=e^{-|\alpha|^2}\sum_{n=0}^\infty n\frac{|\alpha|^2}{n!}$ is small (can be much smaller than 1 on average, if you like).
For the first question, the answer is somewhat. The Poissonian number statistics of a coherent state imply that each photon is in some sense uncorrelated from the other photons. Thus, the probability of detecting $N$ photons can be computed by treating each photon's detection probability independently. In circumstances such as phase estimation this means that each photon can in some sense be treated independently.
On the other hand, there are circumstances in which the photons in a laser should be treated as a collective entity. For example, a laser beam interacting with a two-level atom in the Jaynes-Cummings model has the dynamics split into subspaces that only couple neighbouring photon-number states $|n\rangle$ and $|n+1\rangle$, in which the probability of the atom being in the ground or excited state oscillates with a frequency that depends on $n$. These dynamics cannot be explained by considering lasers to simply be collections of individual photons.