In Weinberg's The Quantum Theory of Fields, Chapter 2, he works out the Wigner classification of the unitary representations of the Poincare group. In particular, one finds that the possible one-particle Hilbert spaces are spanned by $|p,\sigma\rangle$ where $p$ is the eigenvalue of the momentum operators $P^\mu$, restricted by $p^2=-m^2$ in the irreducible representations, and $\sigma$ is the spin projection/helicity depending on whether the particle is massive or massless.
In that sense, states $|\psi\rangle$ of relativistic particles are naturally represented by momentum space wavefunctions $\psi_\sigma(p)$, where $$|\psi\rangle=\int \dfrac{d^3p}{(2\pi)^32\omega_p}\psi_\sigma(p)|p,\sigma\rangle,\quad \langle p,\sigma|\psi\rangle=\psi_\sigma(p).$$
That said, I often hear people talking about the momentum eigenstates as plane waves like $e^{ipx}$ in the scalar case or $\epsilon_\mu(p) e^{ipx}$ in the vector case with a polarization vector included, that being just some examples. I've also seem people taking linear combinations of these plane waves and saying that these are other possible states of the relativistic particles.
This is confusing for me for two main reasons:
As far as I know we have no useful position operator in QFT. While we do have the momentum operators $P^\mu$ which naturally arise out of the requirement that there be a unitary representation of the Poincare group on the relevant Hilbert space, it looks like the matter about position operators is far more subtle. Without position operator I see no way in which we can have a position basis $|x,\sigma\rangle$ and without it I can't see how one is able to say that $|p,\sigma\rangle$ is a plane wave. Contrast this to non-relativistic QM: there we have position operators, these give us a basis $|x\rangle$ and if we evaluate $\langle x|p\rangle$ we do recover a plane wave. I can't see this happening in the relativistic setting.
The next best thing we could try is to take our free fields $\psi_\ell(x)$ and try to construct states $\psi_\ell(x)|0\rangle$. If we do that already in the scalar field case and tentatively define $|x\rangle = \phi(x)|0\rangle$ we find after a bit of algebra that $$\langle x'|x\rangle=\dfrac{1}{(2\pi)^3}\int\dfrac{d^3p}{2p^0}e^{ip(x-x')},$$ and therefore these states are not orthonormal. In that setting they do not form an orthonormal basis and it would be very hard to view $\langle x|p\rangle$ as some "position representation" of the momentum eigenstates $|p\rangle$ which turns out to be a plane wave.
In that case I really can't see in which sense the abstract momentum eigenstates are plane waves. Given these two points I raised above, what is really behind saying that momentum eigenstates are plane waves? How do we really make sense of this here?