I feel like I have not understood the difference between these two concepts as well as I thought. My prior understanding of shear stress was that it is stress generated after force is applied parallel (or coplanar) to the surface or cross section of an object, while normal stress is generated after force is applied perpendicular to the surface or cross-section of object.
Now with this definition, I just realized that there is a hole in these two "distinct" definitions. If we take the foregoing definition of shear stress to be correct, we can say that an object of certain volume has innumerable cross-sections (whether it is vertical, diagonal or horizontal part of the object). No matter where or what position I am exerting force on an object, I am SIMULTANEOUSLY exerting it parallel or coplanar to one of the surface/cross section of an object. With this reasoning in mind, then wouldn't shear stress and normal stress go together all the time.
For example, imagine a cube box that has a certain 3D volume. This cube is made of infinite horizontal, vertical surface/ layers (like layers of solid molecules arranged in a lattice) in the xyz plane that come together to give this cube box a macroscopic length, width and height.
Now if I use my hand or finger to push the cube box at top ( horizontal) surface/outer perimeter downward, I see that I am using a normal force to those specific infinite horizontal surface/layer making up the length aspect of the object, because it is force exerted 90 degree to them. But when I do that, am I not exerting shear force at the same time to the specific vertical surface/layer ( out of again the infinite vertical layers making up the cube) that up the vertical aspect of the cube box, because ,to those specific layer, the same normal force applied to the infinite horizontal surface layers is appearing as shear force because the force is parallel to those vertical surface/layers?
If someone can clarify on these concepts, that would be much appreciated. Thanks.