I was learning about Qubit measurement and the basics of Quantum computing. The instructor forced a lot on the following statement : Assume an isolated system S. Let an observer O interact with the system S to measure some property, state of Observer O will change as opposed to the state of S i.e. $|S\rangle (|O_1\rangle+|O_2\rangle) $
Almost every other resource mentions the opposite, i.e. upon observation, state of the system is changed or Wavefunction of the system is collapsed when observed. (At first, I thought they are equivalent just like different observers in moving frames as discussed in relativity. But I still wanted to confirm)
Q1: Are these statements equivalent or do they have different meanings (shouldn't the above equation be $ |O\rangle (|S_1\rangle+|S_2\rangle) $ )? And if they do have different meanings, why did the instructor use the former?
Later, the instructor attempted to connect the given statement with the Many-Worlds interpretation which raised another question in a different context.
Q2: If Many-worlds interpretation is true, why do we always observe only the outcomes with the highest probability? According to Many-worlds, there exists some universe where results with lower probability would have been observed. Why is it always some different universe and not ours? (Is it again because the probability of observing those results is very, very small and the number of parallel universes is infinite? Does this question has some physics-related answer at all?)
Any insights will be helpful. Thanks in advance.