The tangential force exerted on a pendulum weight is $-mgsin(\theta)$. If we say that the pendulum has length L than $sin\theta$ = $\frac{x}{l}$.
Then $$F_{tangential} = \frac{-mg}{l}x$$
Then why do we need the small angle approximation at all? This relation between the force and the displacement satisfies the condition of simple harmonic motion, which is $\frac{F}{x} = c$ ; $c<0$.
My textbook uses small angle approximation and derives the same force equation from there. But to me, it seems like the relation should be linear even if the angle is large.