Quantum Electrodynamics I was wondering if anyone could give  a simple explanation of how light interacts with matter.  From what I have read in QED, electrons will repel each other because of their ability to emit and absorb photons.  However, I do not observe any visible light between objects around me, repelling each other when I place them on a desk.  They also don't appear to heat up, or emit IR light, from just being placed beside each other either.  What type of light is being emitted by this matter constantly?  
Extending this idea, what happens to a single electron when placed in a box which allows no light to be input, but removes all light emitted? Does it simply lose energy in the form of light until the electron no longer exists? 
In addition, does anyone know of any good visualizations of photon waves interacting with atoms?  I have heard of an analogy of an atom being similar to a cork in a pond, while the waves are like photons coming to excite the material.  Does this idea sound correct, and if so, does it fit well with the idea of visualizing oscillating probability densities of electrons and how they interact with photons?
It would be nice to be able to visualize these processes and understand how they fit with tight binding / Hubbard models, etc.
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However, I do not observe any visible light between objects around me, repelling each other when I place them on a desk. They also don't appear to heat up, or emit IR light, from just being placed beside each other either. What type of light is being emitted by this matter constantly?

The key point is that those photons are not real photons. They are called virtual (off-shell) photons because they cannot be detected. And they are just a tool to calculate the interaction between particles, in fact, the don't obey the energy/momentum conservation laws ($E^2\neq p^2+m^2$).

In this image, two electrons interact, exchanging a photon (wavy line). Since the photon is an internal line, we can't measure it. This is just one of the possible (infinite) ways two electrons can interact. See this image:

Also note that two normal objects won't interact much, but they will emit IR radiation due to blackbody effect (something totally different).

Extending this idea, what happens to a single electron when placed in a box which allows no light to be input, but removes all light emitted? Does it simply lose energy in the form of light until the electron no longer exists?

I don't know how an electron in a box can emit light.
