I am trying to show that $\nabla\cdot \vec{A}=-\mu_0 \epsilon_0 \frac{\partial V}{\partial t}$
$V=\frac{1}{4\pi\epsilon_0}\int \frac{\rho(\vec{r}',t_r)}{r}d\tau'$
$\vec{A}=\frac{\mu_0}{4\pi}\int \frac{J(\vec{r}',t_r)}{r}d\tau'$
Where $d\tau'=dxdydz$, $t_r=t-\frac{r}{c}$ is the retarded time, $\vec{r}$ is the position vector of the charge and $\vec{r}'$ is the position of the observer (us) and $r=|\vec{r}-\vec{r}'|$ the distance from us to the source.
Probably best to start with $\nabla\cdot \vec{A}$:
$\nabla\cdot \vec{A} =\frac{1}{4\pi \epsilon_0}\int \nabla \cdot \left(\frac{\vec{J}(\vec{r}',t_r)}{r}\right)d\tau'$
Apparently,
$\nabla\cdot ({\vec{J}\over r})=\frac{1}{r}(\nabla\cdot \vec{J})+\frac{1}{r}(\nabla'\cdot \vec{J})-\nabla'\cdot ({\vec{J}\over r})$
This is the first thing I need to do to get any further but I cannot do this. $\nabla$ is differentiation with respect to $r$ and $\nabla'$ is with respect to $r'$.
I thought that
$\nabla\cdot ({\vec{J}\over r})=\frac{1}{r}(\nabla\cdot\vec{J})+\vec{J}\cdot (\nabla(\frac{1}{r}))$