While studying the 3+1 Formalism of General Relativity, the slices of constant $t$ confuse me on what the physical essence is.
For example (and I've made another question related to that, after that started studing 3+1 GR book) in simulations where a Black Hole - Neutron Star merger is happening, the $t$ parametere is refering to these slices is, but I'm lacking to see the physical relation.