In linearized gravity, the metric is given by the Minkowski metric and a small perturbation, \begin{equation} g^{\mu\nu} = \eta^{\mu\nu}+h^{\mu\nu},\quad |h^{\mu\nu}|\ll 1. \end{equation} Plugging this expression into the expression for our Christoffel symbols, we obtain \begin{equation} \Gamma^{\alpha}_{\mu\nu} = \frac{1}{2} \color{red}{g^{\alpha\lambda}} (\partial_\nu h_{\mu\lambda} + \partial_\mu h_{\nu\lambda} - \partial_\lambda h_{\mu\nu}). \end{equation} Various textbooks and lecture notes like these notes from Carroll (eq. 6.4) simplify this to \begin{equation} \Gamma^{\alpha}_{\mu\nu} = \frac{1}{2} \color{red}{\eta^{\alpha\lambda}} (\partial_\nu h_{\mu\lambda} + \partial_\mu h_{\nu\lambda} - \partial_\lambda h_{\mu\nu}) \end{equation} by asserting that $\partial_\alpha h_{\beta\gamma}$ is also first order in $h_{\mu\nu}$.
How is that justified? Couldn't the perturbation be small, but rapidly oscillating, for example?