Let's consider the Higgs Lagrangian \begin{equation} \mathcal{L}= -(\partial^\mu\phi+B^\mu\phi)^\dagger(\partial_\mu\phi+B_\mu\phi)-V(\phi^\dagger\phi) \end{equation} where $B^\mu$ is the $\mu$ component of the gauge field (a Lie-algebra-valued field, i.e. an anti-Hermitian matrix), and the potential $V$ is the usual "Mexican hat" function. (I simplified the notation a bit, I hope it's clear. The gauge field $B$ refers to the whole $\mathrm{SU}(2)\otimes\mathrm{U}(1)$ group, i.e. it's the sum of the three weak bosons and the hypercharge boson.) I am given a minimum \begin{equation} \phi_0= \frac{v}{\sqrt{2}} \begin{pmatrix} 0\\ 1 \end{pmatrix} \end{equation} of the potential $V$ about which I should expand the Lagrangian density, writing $\phi$ as $\phi_0+\phi'$. The part with the covariant derivative becomes \begin{equation} -(\partial^\mu\phi'+B^\mu\phi'+B^\mu\phi_0)^\dagger(\partial_\mu\phi'+B_\mu\phi'+B_\mu\phi_0) \end{equation} which generates the kinetic term for $\phi'$, the mass quadratic terms for the gauge bosons, and a whole lot of other cross-terms. Now, some of the books on which I studied this straight up ignore those cross-terms:
- Weinberg's The Quantum Theory of Fields vol. 2 (eq. 21.1.5) suggests to "expand the Lagrangian to second order in $\phi'$ and $B$";
- Peskin and Schroeder's Introduction to QFT (eq. 20.61) says that "the relevant terms" are those that generate the bosons' masses and says nothing about the others;
- Ellis (et al.)'s QCD and Collider Physics (eq. 8.26) just writes the Lagrangian without all those cross-terms.
What should I do with those cross-terms? Do they cancel out? In the unitarity gauge I was able to show that some of them are zero, but others, like $(\partial^\mu\phi')^\dagger B_\mu\phi'$, are not. I thought that they may become interaction terms between the Higgs field and the gauge bosons, but judging from the Feynman rules for boson interactions in Ellis' book (figure 8.2, page 277) they are not there.
I'm starting to think that the line of reasoning here is that I should just discard non-quadratic terms, and be done with it. But I can't find any deeper explanation for it than "do it because everyone else does it". Why can they be ignored?