We say space-time is not rigid.
But if, e.g. space expands then even the 'meter' stick we use to measure distance expands - (I guess distance is nothing but number of times a meter stick is repeated to reach from pt A to pt B which then won't change) - then how will we ever know that space (i.e. distance between A and B) has 'expanded'
What is it that I'm missing in this - Why am I wrong?