See, I have looked through a bunch of scripts about second quantization on the internet, but everywhere at some point something weird is happening so I get stuck over and over and over again, which is a little bit depressing. So here is the thing: Let‘s assume some single particle operator $\mathcal{O}^{(1)}$. Now taken it is separable acting on a N-particle Hilbert space one can represent the operator by
$$\mathcal{O}^{(1)}=\sum_{i}\mathcal{o}_{i}=\sum_{\alpha,\beta,i}\langle{\alpha}|\mathcal{o}_{i}|{\beta}\rangle|{\alpha}\rangle\langle{\beta}|.$$ Now $|\alpha\rangle={a^{\dagger}}_{\alpha}|0\rangle$ so I could write
$$\mathcal{O}^{(1)}=\sum_{\alpha,\beta,i}\langle{\alpha}|\mathcal{o}_{i}|{\beta}\rangle{a^{\dagger}}_{\alpha}|{0}\rangle\langle{0}|a_{\beta}$$
which in the result should be equal to $$\sum_{\alpha,\beta,i}\langle\alpha|\mathcal{o}_{i}|\beta\rangle a^{\dagger}_{\alpha}a_{\beta}.$$
But I can‘t believe that these two expressions are equal... Can someone please explain to me how I get to the operator expression of second quantization or at least recommend some website or something where it is explained really well ? Thank you in advance!