The fact that the glass exploded into those blunted, blocky little pebbles proves that during its manufacture, there were significant amounts of compressive thermal stresses frozen into it.
These arise because as it solidifies from the molten state, glass shrinks slightly, and the first part of the glass to solidify is the outermost part (i.e., the exposed external surfaces). Then, when the still-molten interior solidifies a moment later, it contracts and in so doing tries to pull together the solidified "skin" with it- thereby applying a compressive stress to the skin.
This makes the resulting glass part significantly stronger, because to place the glass in tension and cause it to fail in brittle fracture requires that these residual compressive stress be overcome by the applied load. This is in fact the mechanism by which tempered safety glass is made, as used in sliding glass doors and glass bathtub and shower enclosures.
When the applied stress is great enough to trigger brittle failure in the safety glass, the entire piece of glass explodes into a pile of blunt pebbles instead of a series of razor-sharp daggers which can do great harm.
Now, how to blow up a piece of tempered glass? If you rub it hard enough, it is possible to put microscratches into its surface, any one of which can redistribute the stresses in the part and initiate brittle fracture. Note also that water is very slightly soluble in glass, and can also get into the microscratches and alter the stress distributions in the part. Having one zone of the glass hotter than another zone makes this uneven stress distribution even worse. Then, when your back is turned, the part goes kaboom.