For each rotations in the planes xy, yz and zx, and for each "boost" in x, y and z directions, it is possible to examine the situation for an infinitesimal change.
For the rotations, $sin(\theta_i) \approx \theta_i$ and $cos(\theta_i) \approx 1$.
For "boosts", $sinh(\phi_i) \approx \phi_i$ and $cosh(\phi_i) \approx 1$. ($tanh(\phi_i) = v/c$)
For each case, the infinitesimal Lorentz matrix can be separated in a sum of the identity and a matrix formed only by zeros and ones (the generators), multiplied by the correspondent infinitesimal ($\theta_i$ or $\phi_i$). Below an example for a "boost" in x direction:
\begin{equation}
I + \phi_1
\begin{vmatrix}
0 & -1 & 0 & 0\\
-1 & 0 & 0 & 0\\
0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\
0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\
\end{vmatrix}
\end{equation}
When multiplying a 4-vector by such matrices, the distance is preserved like in the example:
$(x^0)' = x^0 -\phi_1 x^1 $
$(x^1)' = -\phi_1 x^0 + x^1$
$(x^0)'^2 - (x^1)'^2 = (x^0)^2 - (x^1)^2 - 2x^0\phi_1 x^1 + 2x^0\phi_1 x^1$ discarding the second order infinitesimal.
For a general infinitesimal transformation, the corresponding matrix is the sum of the identity and a linear combination of $\theta_i$ and $\phi_i$ multiplied by the respective generators.
That sum of matrices are the first Taylor expansion terms of an exponential, that is the Lorentz matrix for a finite general transformation.
$L = e^{\phi_1 J^1 + \phi_2 J^2 + ... + \theta_3 J^6 }$