Suppose a finite rotation around x axis. The rotation matrix is:
\begin{vmatrix}
1 & 0 & 0\\
0 & cos(\theta_1) & sin(\theta_1)\\
0 & -sin(\theta_1) & cos(\theta_1)
\end{vmatrix}
Now a rotation around y axis:
\begin{vmatrix}
cos(\theta_2) & 0 & -sin(\theta_2)\\
0 & 1 & 0\\
sin(\theta_2) & 0 & cos(\theta_2)
\end{vmatrix}
Finally a rotation around z axis:
\begin{vmatrix}
cos(\theta_3) & sin(\theta_3) & 0\\
-sin(\theta_3) & cos(\theta_3) & 0\\
0 & 0 & 1
\end{vmatrix}
If the rotations are infinitesimal, $cos(\theta_i)\sim 1$ and $sin(\theta_i) \sim \theta_i$.
If we want now a composite infinitesimal rotation, we multiply that matrices, following that approximations, and disregarding the products of $\theta_i*\theta_j$ that are second order infinitesimals.
We get:
\begin{vmatrix}
1 & \theta_3 & -\theta_2\\
-\theta_3 & 1 & -\theta_1\\
\theta_2 & -\theta_1 & 1
\end{vmatrix}
If we use that matrix to transform a vector:
$$
\begin{vmatrix} x^{'}_1 \\ x^{'}_2 \\x^{'}_3 \end{vmatrix} = \begin{vmatrix}
1 & \theta_3 & -\theta_2\\
-\theta_3 & 1 & -\theta_1\\
\theta_2 & -\theta_1 & 1
\end{vmatrix} \times \begin{vmatrix} x_1 \\ x_2 \\ x_3 \end{vmatrix}
$$
We have the same expression from the book, except that $\epsilon_{ij} = 0$ if $i = j$