I started studying about gravitation recently and I came across the fact that when finding the gravitational force between the earth and some point mass in space, we can consider the mass of the earth to be concentrated in the center.
Now when I read about tidal forces being caused by the difference in gravitational force due to one side of the earth being nearer to the moon than the other, I got confused. If we are considering the distance between the two objects to be from their center of masses, to calculate the gravitational force exerted on each other, then why does it matter that one side of the earth is closer than the other?