Consider an $N$-particle system, for which the Hamiltonian is written in first quantization as $$ \hat H = \hat H_0 +\hat H_I, $$ where $$ \hat H_0 = \sum\limits_{i=1}^{N}\left[-\frac{\hbar^2}{2M}\nabla_i^2 + U(\mathbf r_i)\right] $$ and $$ \hat H_I = \frac{1}{2}\sum\limits_{\substack{i,j\\i\neq j}}^N V(\mathbf r_i, \mathbf r_j). $$ When translating this to second quantization, we use the field operators: $$ \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r) = \sum\limits_{i=1}^{N} \varphi_i^*(\mathbf r)\hat a_i^{\dagger} \\ \hat\Psi(\mathbf r) = \sum\limits_{i=1}^{N} \varphi_i(\mathbf r)\hat a_i $$ And the formula $$ \hat O^{(2)} = \int d^3r \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r) \hat O \hat\Psi(\mathbf r), $$ for single particle operators and $$ \hat O^{(2)} = \int d^3rd^3r' \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r) \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r') \hat O \hat\Psi(\mathbf r)\hat\Psi(\mathbf r') $$ for two-particle operators.
Using the formula and substituting $\hat H_0$: $$ \begin{align*} \hat H_0^{(2)} & = \int d^3r \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r) \hat H_0 \hat\Psi(\mathbf r)\\ & = \sum\limits_{i=1}^{N} \int d^3r \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r)\left[-\frac{\hbar^2}{2M}\nabla_i^2 + U(\mathbf r_i)\right] \hat\Psi(\mathbf r) \end{align*} $$ However, my book neglects the sum over $i$ and writes simply $$ \hat H_0^{(2)} = \int d^3r \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r)\left[-\frac{\hbar^2}{2M}\nabla^2 + U(\mathbf r)\right] \hat\Psi(\mathbf r) $$ For the interaction part after substituting $\hat H_I$, I get $$ \begin{align*} \hat H_I^{(2)} & = \int d^3rd^3r' \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r)\hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r') \hat H_I \hat\Psi(\mathbf r) \hat\Psi(\mathbf r') \\ & = \frac{1}{2}\sum\limits_{\substack{i,j\\i\neq j}}^N \int d^3rd^3r' \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r) \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r') V(\mathbf r_i, \mathbf r_j) \hat\Psi(\mathbf r)\hat\Psi(\mathbf r') \end{align*} $$
However, my book writes only $$ \hat H_I^{(2)} = \frac{1}{2}\int d^3rd^3r' \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r) \hat\Psi^{\dagger}(\mathbf r') V(1,2) \hat\Psi(\mathbf r)\hat\Psi(\mathbf r') $$
Why do we ignore the sums in second quantization? How to interpret $V(1,2)$ instead $V(\mathbf r_i, \mathbf r_j)$? Why do we write $\nabla^2$ and $U(\mathbf r)$ instead $\nabla_i^2$ and $U(\mathbf r_i)$ in the expression of $\hat H_0^{(2)}$?