The argument proposed in the question is rather loosely worded. If we tighten up the language then the issues become clearer.
I will quote the three opening statements, which are loosely worded, and propose a more precisely worded replacement.
- Equivalence principle → locally, acceleration is equivalent to a
gravitational field
Replace with:
1B. Weak equivalence principle → all entities have the same acceleration under gravity in any given small region.
- Forces (which each observer, inertial or not inertial, agree about) causes particles to have a proper acceleration (they don't follow
geodesics)
replace with:
2B. (Non-gravitational) forces cause particles to follow non-geodesics. Since all observers agree about geodesics, all will agree that a given worldline is non-geodesic if it is, so they will agree on the presence of a force and consequently a proper acceleration. They will also agree about the invariant magnitude of the acceleration 4-vector but the components of this 4-vector will be frame-dependent.
- These particles which have a proper acceleration, from their point of view, feel a gravitational field (point one).
Replace with:
3B. Suppose we attach a frame of reference to a particle whose proper acceleration 4-vector has non-zero magnitude. Any nearby particles in freefall will have 4-acceleration of zero magnitude. Consequently there is a difference in the 4-accelerations of the frame of reference and of particles in freefall.
In this reference frame there will be a non-zero three-acceleration of everything in freefall. The term 'gravitational field' may be invoked as a way to refer to the presence and size of this three-acceleration.
Finally, we come to the actual question, which is whether the 'gravitational field' just mentioned is real or fictitious. There is no way to answer that because as a question it is too vague. What one can instead is comment on what is and is not true of this kind of field. First of all, the 3-accelerations we are referring to really are non-zero and they have physical effects. For example, an apple released from a branch of a tree really does have a 3-acceleration relative to the ground and will hit the ground and possibly be bruised. Nothing fictitious about that. On the other hand, one may note that a change of reference frame suffices to make the 3-acceleration of the apple go to zero so it is not an invariant and so not a statement about the apple alone, but rather a way of referring to relative motion between the apple and a chosen reference frame.
Next, if spacetime is flat then merely changing reference frame will not change that fact, so the 'gravitational field' associated with a non-inertial reference frame does not cause spacetime curvature. If you wish to reserve the term 'gravitational field' for the situation of non-zero curvature then you would have to say there is no gravitational field in the Rindler frame (the constantly accelerating frame in flat spacetime) and the effects observed in that frame, such as apples falling to the bottom of an accelerating rocket, should not be called 'gravitational'. That's ok but it does not change the fact that the weak equivalence principle is a useful and insightful observation about the effects of gravity, and indeed it can be used to deduce quantitatively (and correctly!) the curvature of a light ray path under 'gravity' as indicated by the local 3-acceleration,
in some given (non-inertial) reference frame, of entities in freefall.