I am looking at a metric which is defined as (Eq 2.4 Glampedakis & Babak)
$$ g_{\mu \nu} = g_{\mu \nu}^K + \epsilon h_{\mu \nu}$$
where $g_{\mu \nu}^K$ is the original unperturbed metric (Kerr) and $h_{\mu \nu}$ some perturbation.
Now, I know that the indices of the perturbation are raised/lowered using the unperturbed metric i.e.
$$ h_{\alpha \beta} = g_{\alpha \gamma}^K g_{\beta \delta}^K h^{\gamma \delta}$$
(see e.g. application in Eq 2. of Narzilloev et al. 2019)
My question is how to get the contravariant form of $g^{\mu \nu}$?
Option 1 is that simply,
$$ g^{\mu \nu} = g^{\mu \nu}_K + \epsilon h^{\mu \nu}$$
Option 2 considers $g^{\mu \nu}$ as an independent matrix and we invert it the usual way.
However these two options seem to not be equivalent. For example consider the $g^{03}$ term.
Option 1 tells us that $$ g^{03} = g^{0 3}_K + \epsilon h^{0 3}$$ but $h^{0 3} = 0$ and so $g^{03} = g^{0 3}_K$.
But Option 2 tells us that
$$ g^{03} = - \frac{g_{03}}{ \tilde{g}} = \frac{-1}{\tilde{g}} (g_{03}^{K} + \epsilon h_{03}) \ne g^{0 3}_K$$
where $\tilde{g} = g_{00} g_{33} - g_{03}^2$ and we have exploited the symmetries of the matrix (e.g. Eq 19.13 of these notes)
Can anyone provide some guidance on where I am going wrong? Thanks.