I am following some work in David McMahon's 'Relativity Demystified'.
In it, he gives an example of some line element in flat spacetime in polar coordinates
$$ \mathrm ds^2 = \mathrm dr^2 + r^2 \mathrm d\theta^2 +r^2 \sin^2 \theta\, \mathrm d \phi^2 .$$
Since in a coordinate basis the basis vectors satisfy
$$ e_a \cdot e_b = g_{ab}$$
for metric $g_{ab}$, it is then simple to get the magnitudes of the basis vectors (e.g. $|e_{\phi}| = r \sin \theta$)
That is all fine and makes sense to me.
Now, what happens if we instead consider the Kerr metric in Boyer Lindquist coordinates?
Specifically, what happens to the cross $t,\phi$ terms? Is it still true that $e_{\phi} \cdot e_{\phi} = g_{\phi \phi}$? The vierbein one-forms seem to suggest that this is no longer OK, but it is not clear to me why.
Thanks in advance