Gauge symmetry is a redundancy in the sense that it stems from the fact that we describe an object with more degrees of freedom than those that are actually needed. That is $A_\mu$ and $A_\mu + \partial_\mu \phi$ describe the same physical object, and thus any total derivative contribution to $A_\mu$ is redundant.
Now the conclusion that must be drawn from this fact is precisely the opposite. Since gauge symmetry is a redundancy than it is sacred! If it's broken, i.e. $A_\mu$ and $A_\mu + \partial_\mu \phi$ give different physical consequences, it means that the same physical object behaves differently if we describe it differently on paper. This is of course absurd.
Moreover, $A_\mu$ is never measured, but $F_{\mu\nu} = \partial_\mu A_\nu - \partial_\nu A_\mu$ is. So after measuring a certain value of $F$ it better be that, no matter the choice we make for writing down an $A$, the result is the same.