Consider the quadrilateral $\mathbf{u}\Delta a$, $\mathbf{v}\Delta b$, $-\mathbf{u}\Delta a$, $-\mathbf{v}\Delta b$, plus the closer $[\mathbf{v},\mathbf{u}]\Delta a\Delta b$ in the figure. Denote its vertices by points $0, 1, 2, 3, 4$ counterclockwise with $0$ begin the starting point of the parallel transport.
Moreover, denote the vector field $\mathbf{A}$ at point $i$ by $\mathbf{A}_i^\mathrm{(field)}$ and the parallel transported vector of $\mathbf{A}_{i-1}^\mathrm{(field)}$ at $i$ by $\mathbf{A}_i^\mathrm{(mobile)}$, i.e., $\mathbf{A}_i^\mathrm{(mobile)}=\Gamma_{(i-1)\to i}(\mathbf{A}_{i-1}^\mathrm{(field)})$ with $\mathbf{A}_0^\mathrm{(mobile)}=\Gamma_{4\to 0}(\mathbf{A}_4^\mathrm{(field)})$.
For simplicity, work only to order $\Delta a\Delta b$ here. Expansion to quadratic order in $\Delta a$ and $\Delta b$ gives the same result as terms of order $(\Delta a)^2$ and $(\Delta b)^2$ cancel out separately.
Change in $\mathbf{A}_i^\mathrm{(field)}$ relative to the parallel transported $\mathbf{A}_i^\mathrm{(mobile)}$ along each leg of the quadrilateral is as follows:
- $0\to 1$: $$\require{cancel}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_1-\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(mobile)}_1=\Delta a\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0,$$
- $1\to 2$: $$\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_2-\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(mobile)}_2=\Delta b\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_1=\Delta b(\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0+\Delta a\nabla_\mathbf{u}\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0),$$
- $2\to 3$: $$\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_3-\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(mobile)}_3=\Delta a\Delta b\nabla_{[\mathbf{v},\mathbf{u}]}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_2=\Delta a\Delta b\nabla_{[\mathbf{v},\mathbf{u}]}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0,$$
- $3\to 4$: $$\begin{align*}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_4-\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(mobile)}_4=-\Delta a\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_3&=-\Delta a(\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_4+\cancel{\Delta a\nabla_\mathbf{u}\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_4})\\&=-\Delta a(\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0+\Delta b\nabla_\mathbf{v}\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0),\end{align*}$$
- $4\to 0$: $$\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_0-\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(mobile)}_0=-\Delta b\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_4=-\Delta b(\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0+\cancel{\Delta b\nabla_\mathbf{v}\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0}).$$
The key point is to express covariant derivatives $\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_1$, $\nabla_{[\mathbf{v},\mathbf{u}]}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_2$, $\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_3$ and $\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_4$ in terms of that evaluated at $0$.
Using $\mathbf{A}_i^\mathrm{(mobile)}=\Gamma_{(i-1)\to i}(\mathbf{A}_{i-1}^\mathrm{(field)})$ with $\mathbf{A}_0^\mathrm{(mobile)}=\Gamma_{4\to 0}(\mathbf{A}_4^\mathrm{(field)})$ and adding all changes up give
$$\begin{align*}-\delta\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_0&=\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_0-\Gamma_{4\to 0}\ldots\Gamma_{1\to 2}\Gamma_{0\to 1}(\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}_0)\\&=(\nabla_\mathbf{u}\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0-\nabla_\mathbf{v}\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0+\nabla_{[\mathbf{v},\mathbf{u}]}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0)\Delta a\Delta b\\
&=(\nabla_\mathbf{u}\nabla_\mathbf{v}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}-\nabla_\mathbf{v}\nabla_\mathbf{u}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}-\nabla_{[\mathbf{u},\mathbf{v}]}\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)})|_0\Delta a\Delta b\\
&=R(\mathbf{u},\mathbf{v})\mathbf{A}^\mathrm{(field)}|_0\Delta a\Delta b.
\end{align*}$$