Here is the paper I found it on. Page 5,6.
So, the arguments given are:
"In order to keep track of such dipole motion, one’s first instinct might be to define a (non-symmetric) current tensor Jij representing the current of the i directed dipoles in the j direction. However, there is a fundamental ambiguity in this definition. For example, consider the close-packed charge configuration in Figure 1. There is not a unique way of defining either the dipole density or Jij in such a case. Microscopically, an operator hopping an i dipole in the j direction is the same operator hopping a j dipole in the i direction, so the true microscopic current operator is actually a symmetric tensor Jij."
I don't see how the ij and ji hopping operators must be the same and I still feel like the tensor should have 9 independent components. If someone could explain the argument to me, it would really be helpful.
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