You may prove that the required mirror charge is the opposite of the external charge – and if you have many external charges, the solution is given by the superposition principle so the total sum of "real" external charges is equal to the sum of the mirror charges – by calculating an integral under "integrating over all angles" in Wikipedia.
Instead of reproducing the proof over there, let me offer you a more conceptual proof. Electrodynamics is "conformally invariant". It really boils down to the fact that the action $-(1/4)\int d^4 x\, F_{\mu\nu}F^{\mu\nu}$ is scale-invariant and scale invariance together with the Poincaré invariance typically implies the full conformal symmetry.
Now, the required mirror charge is clearly $-q_{\rm external}$ if the conducting surface is planar, by a $Z_2$ symmetry (which is the only way to guarantee that $\vec E$ will be orthogonal to the plane, the boundary of the conductor, which is required by the constancy of the potential in the conductor). One may generalize this statement to an arbitrary sphere by making a spherical inversion. Consider a conductor whose surface is a plane not crossing the origin $\vec x=0$. Now, perform a spherical inversion
$$ (r,\theta,\phi)\to (1/r,\theta,\phi) $$
in spherical coordinates. This transformation – which will change the plane outside the origin (and going to infinity) to a (compact, not touching the infinity) sphere touching the origin – may be easily shown to be an angle-preserving, conformal transformation (essentially because it's true in 2D, because $z\to 1/z$ is a holomorphic function of a complex variable except for the pole at $z=0$) so if all the fields are transformed properly and if they solved the equations before, they will solve it afterwords, too.
But the integral $\nabla\cdot \vec E$ which is proportional to the charge in a given region is invariant under the conformal transformations because the integrand is the 2nd derivative of the potentials whose "mass dimension" is one (just like for a derivative, too). The integrand is therefore "mass cubed" which cancels against the three-dimensional integration measure. So if you apply the spherical inversion on the planar problem, you get a sphere with an external charge and a mirror charge and the charges $+q,-q$ will be exactly like before (like for the planar problem).
One would need some maths beyond the "mass dimensions" to prove that the charge is really conformally invariant but it's true.
So while the derivation needs either some abstract group theory – spherical inversion, conformal symmetry etc. – or boring integrals, the answer is Yes, the charges are the same. By the superposition principle, you may take the external charges to be any distribution. These sources may be viewed as the superposition of point-like charges, and the resulting fields $\vec E$ will be superpositions with the same coefficients, excited by the same combination of the mirror charges. So the equality between the external and mirror "total charge" will remain valid even if you take any configuration of spherical or planar conductors (planar conductors are just the $R\to\infty$ limits of the spherical ones) and any configuration of charges.