So I was measuring the induced voltage in a solenoid (air-core) with the primary solenoid being on the outside (parameters:$N_p=100$, $l_p=12.6cm$, $d_p=5.1 cm$, $N_s=50$, $l_s=6.3 cm$ and $d_s=3.1 cm$). We were using the ideal transformer equation with a small modification ($V_s = V_p \frac{d_s^2}{d_p^2}\frac{N_s}{N_p}$) to account for the smaller radius of our secondary coil. Our circuit was a function generator connected to an amplifier and the voltage across the amplifier was put through a $17 \Omega$ resistor and the primary coil. We were measuring directly on the terminals of the primary coil as well as the secondary coil using an oscilloscope.
All was well until we noticed that we are getting strange results only a few pairs were having. We were advised to measure the potential difference not only on the primary coil but to measure it directly on the terminals of the amp. Here comes the problem. As soon as the ground of the coax cable is disconnected from the circuit (The one measuring the primary coil) the output of the secondary coil changed significantly (Up until this point the phase difference in the sine wave between primary and secondary was negligible, but this caused it to jump to ~$\pi /2$). The weird thing was that the output measured on the primary coil/circuit was unaffected, while the secondary coil's voltage changed to the values that we should be getting according to simulation.
My question is twofold. One is whether someone can explain the phenomenon or give an idea as to what this might be, where to start looking and how to rule out specifics. Second is how do I find the voltage across the primary coil and only the primary coil without biasing my measurements.
A bit of further info: Oscilloscope is Rhode Schwartz RTB 2004 input impedance: $R=1M\Omega$ and $C=9pF$
EDIT: Both coils were connected using a coax cable, and although I do not know the exact capacitance I modeled them using $C=100pF$, which I inferred from a previous experiment.