I'm assuming the answer to the first question is yes, if I'm wrong, this will be an easy one to clean up. Forgive me is this is a stupid question. When thinking of light waves or particles as waves, I have always thought of them as the waves on the 2-D surface of the water. It just dawned on me how overly simplistic this view was when I was thinking of the light from distant stars reaching us. It's so neat and orderly to have that 2-D wave. When I think of 3-D waves, my mental image falls apart. How do we discern one light source from another? I feel like they should all combine together, making their origin unknowable. I obviously know this isn't the case because I am able to differentiate the wavelengths of light being reflected off the various objects in my everyday life. I just don't understand how the wavelengths of the light doesn't add up...
I really hope someone could clear this up for me. Maybe explaining how EM detectors differentiate wavelengths, or something? I don't know.