Why does Hawking radiation outside the Schwarzschild radius decrease a black hole's mass? When a pair of virtual particles is created outside the event horizon of black hole, there is a chance for one of the particles to escape. Zero chance on the surface of the event horizon and my question is why doesn't this Hawking radiation make a black hole gain mass but the opposite? Just what is the edge of black hole? 
 A: Pair production  can only proceed when an interaction with a field happens, 

Energy and momentum conservation have to hold at the horizon of the black hole, (and in measures describing it, see this answer here. )
For Hawking radiation, one must adapt the diagrams to the existence of a graviton, even though this is an effective model, as gravity has not been definitively quantized. The graviton will provide the energy for the interaction to happen, and thus diminish the four vector of the black hole by the amount of the four vector of the leaving electron.
Adaptation of the left diagram.
The Z is the black hole, emitting a virtual graviton which goes in an e+e- loop which interacts with one of the photons in the photon sphere and generates a pair. If the momentum directions allow one of the pair can leave taking part of the original graviton energy,  and the other caught falls  back in the black hole.
The second diagram could be used with an infalling charged particle which allows the creation of a particle pair. In this case the black hole will get less energy added to its four vector than it would have if there were no hawking radiation.
In all cases at the horizon energy and momentum are conserved, and the black holes energy momentum vector is reduced and thus its mass is smaller. 
A: Here is a brief, approximate answer which may be easier for you to grasp. 
If a virtual particle-antiparticle pair happens to pop into brief existence right outside the event horizon, it's possible for one of the pair to get promoted into real existence by the gravitational field while the other one falls into the black hole. Seen from afar, it then appears that the black hole is radiating particles. Since those particles are leaving the black hole and since they have real mass, the remaining mass of the black hole must decrease in the same amount- which means the black hole appears to lose mass and shrink as time goes on.
A: The short answer is : the black hole's mass diminishes because energy escapes.
