It is a known fact that inertial and gravitational masses are the same thing, and therefore are numerically equal. This is not an obvious thing, since there are even experiments trying to find a difference between the two kinds of masses. What I don't understand is: why is this not obvious? Usually when something that isn't considered obvious seems obvious to me there's something deep that I'm not getting.
Here's my line of thought:
The inertial mass is defined by
$$ {\bf{F}} = m_i {\bf{a}} \tag{1} $$
The gravitational mass is derived from the fact that the gravitational force between two objects is proportional to the product of the masses of the objects: $$ {\bf{F_g}} = -G \frac{m_{G1} m_{G2}}{|{\bf{r}}_{12}|^2} \hat{{\bf{r}}} \tag{2} $$
Now if the only force acting on the object $1$ is the gravitational force, I can equate equations $(1)$ and $(2)$, and I can always fix the constant $G$ in such a way that the gravitational mass and the inertial mass are numerically equal.
What's wrong with this line of thought and why is the equivalence not really so obvious?