On page 145 of Exploring the quantum, atom cavities and photons by Serge Haroche and Jean-Michel Raimond, we have a two level system (an atom) interacting with a classical field. From what I understood, we can see the problem as a nucleus with one electron having two orbitals of eigenstates $|0\rangle$ and $|1\rangle$. We thus write the Hamiltonian:
$$ H = \hbar \omega_0 |1\rangle \langle 1| - \vec{d}\cdot\vec{E} $$
Where $\vec{d}=e \vec{r}$ and $\vec{r}$ is the position of the electron relative to the atom. On this page, the author rewrites $\vec{d}=\langle 0 | \vec{r} | 1 \rangle \ |0\rangle \langle 1 | + \langle 1 | \vec{r} | 0 \rangle \ |1\rangle \langle 0 | $. The diagonals terms of this operator vanish for parity reasons (I'm ok with this as fundamental is even and excited state is odd).
I don't understand how we can assume that with the interaction, we still can assume that our atom still has two eigenstates $|0\rangle$ and $|1\rangle$. The interaction could add energy levels for example.
If it is an approximation, what are the requirements to ensure that it is true?